So long as you're both okay with that, then that's not a problem to a committed relationship.

[That's not an excuse, mister.]

You know, it doesn't have to be something big. A bouquet of flowers and a piece of jewelry is really common on Earth. Since Felih likes gold and red, why not get him a necklace or a ring with a red gemstone in it? Dance with him at home.

[It's really not that hard, sir. Shiro's keeping his face and tone fairly bland, but man.
This guy's irritated by the idea of having to give his mate something once a year?]